Dec 12

I went out sober again, met up with Jake and a bunch of the mansion guys. I did a bunch of approaches that didn't go anywhere, but I was warming up. Eventually saw two chicks sitting by themselves looking bored, so I just did normal conversation. I touched the hotter southern chick but she didn't respond. Which is not a negative sign, but she also didn't talk much. I decided they were boring and told them I was going out to smoke. The southern chick said they were going for waffles and invited me. I expressed consideration to not make it so easy, then agreed. Prior to this I had gotten logistics, and they were both driving, so I was hoping to take her home.

As we were walking to her car she asked if I was a serial killer. I said no, I'm more of a genocide kind of guy. So I got in her car. I played with her hair a little, and she said she liked it when I touched her hair. So I yanked it a little. She's definitely into me, she just doesn't know how to express it other than letting me touch her and yanking her hair.

We get waffles. I sit down at a booth and make room for one more. Naturally the southern chick sits next to me without even asking. She's so easy to read at this point. I dominate the conversation, telling my life stories, finding excuses to touch her jewelry, hands, legs, hair, back, neck, etc. We leave in separate cars again.

She drives me to my place. I take her number. I ask her to come up for a drink. She says it's late. I reach over and pull here lips onto mine. We make out a bit, I offer the drink again. She says no, it's late. Ok, so I make plans for tomorrow instead. Let's see what happens.

Lessons learned:
- once again, no response is a green light! My instincts are getting better, though, I had the sense that since she didn't move away when I touched her I must be doing something right.
- if a girl invites you to tag along after the bar, it's a huge green light. I actually considered maybe it was a platonic thing, because I hadn't gotten strong responses from this chick, but then came to my senses and decided to find out. I like waffles anyway.