Good people

One thing I got out of The Secret was to focus on the good parts of people instead of what you want to change about them. That makes perfect sense, the more I think about their negative traits the more they are enhanced, if only in my mind.

So, I've listed the traits of the people i want most to change. These are, of course, people who are closest to me, otherwise they wouldn't bug the shit out of me:
Mom: compassionate, sensitive, strong, leader, caring, smart, responsible, helpful, moral
Dad: ambitious, familial, proud, social, helpful, moral
Baldy: funny, fun, responsible, loving, athletic, adventurous
W: loyal, ambitious, fun, caring, helpful, moral

The next time I talk to them I'll have this list out, which will help me focus on their good qualities.